Modernization – Questions and Questions (editing)

(I had a conversation with my friend on this topic. And the topic goes on and on. According to my friend this cannot be solved. Yes, to some extent it can’t be. But creating awareness will save a few.)

So, Indians (OR EVERYONE) are loosing their ethics and values. Why? Life is becoming too difficult. Adapting modernization is pressure and the demand. Too match up, everybody is loosing their individuality.

What is modernization?

It is new way of life. Do you know where the idea came from? People were exploited and ruled by the upper class. Industries.. slaves.. Every country has its own history like the African- American people. There was a time when African women were exploited – no – no – not by Americans but by the Africans men. The writers evolved through these struggle. To create awareness and to create development for the betterment of the society.


Now when you talk about modernization, nudity comes along with it. Openness and frank and casualness. It was may be just a thought. But now it has become ‘it’.

What I mean is when you ask someone about modernization. For them :

modernization= sex, nudity, lust, sluts, whore, porn

But, when you actually look into it. The thing that is was suppose to be.

modernization = was having equal rights.

Its education. its reasoning. its helping. Its about giving yourself importance. It is about having a choice. Understanding that you are the best but still you prefer to stay to the ground to help others. No racism. No cheating.

For example giving the right to a girl whether to wear bikini. Making her aware of the pro and cons. Not to influence.

Basically, it was to make life easy.

BUT, hasn’t it made our life more difficult?

Aren’t people misusing it?

Who is responsible for that?

And how are we going to solve it?

Are we not a part of it?

Aren’t these the consequences?

o Lost

o Dual identity

o Exploiting in the name of modernism

(I am going to earn so much that I have a better life. Then drink so much with that money and unfortunately die with too much drinking. So much for the happy ending – that’s modernism the stupid way – mocking at itself and the people.)

The World we live in (Dual identity how?)

So we all know, science is not completely true. Its evolving and discovering. And then there’s Adam and Eve.

These two begins with a contradicting statement with homo sapiens but then somewhere between they collide. We call it ‘similarities’. Can we say that modernism is now known as science? and it is fighting with the existence of religion. That’s where the dual personality evolves?

Understand the true existence of yours.

What if you are there at the time of Adam and Eve. Was there lust? love? modernism? That means it was created. So the people who created them – Do you trust them so much that you are willing to live your life according to them? Were these created things even beneficial or just another way of exploitation us? Do they even exist?

HAVE YOU TESTED THEM or you just plan to just blindly follow?

P.S: Nudity is not wrong. But is it even right?

Sex education

Sex education was for awareness, but it is influencing the kids. Its creating an environment where they seem its okay. There is no fear of doing wrong. Because it is not wrong anymore. Help your kids. Their life is in your hands. People who are in this, may be able to come back to life. But the people, the new generation who is not into this can be saved. THINK ABOUT IT ATLEAST!

Next post: A detailed post about pornography and the scam.


So.. You can blame others for everything that happens in your life. This will make you suffer and give you pain. But on the other side, you can blame yourself. Be couragious and think, it was you who wanted this.

I can give my life example:

My mom, she is born and brought up in a village. Her dad has struggled alot and it paid off really well. He was in Kuwait Oil Company. She was in Kuwait for 2 years. Then came back for her schooling then she went back again for 2 year. And my uncles was just about to settle there and the war happened and they came back.

My dad was not well off. They married her off to him. She struggled alot. And yet never complained. BUT they still brag about how much they did and if we compare nothing can beat it 🤦🏻‍♀️.

Then she came to MUMBAI as a rebel. My paternal cousins came alot with her. And whatever we have is mostly because of her (not too much but good). My dad back then went to Saudi Arabia, he only used to come once a year. He would send us big boxes of goods. We didn’t really get much time to spent with him. And he used to talk use less.

So, my point is when I try to understand my life, I see – I unknowingly did this. I wanted to be like her.

So the struggle that I went through was given to me by me. Its nobody’s fault. On the other hand, people have been cooperating with me and my behaviour.

Everything seems to make sense now. I made mistakes and I own them.

Lets see where God takes me next….

🥰🤩😍🙇🏻‍♀️ 😝🤪😜😛😝🥳👀👣👩‍🦯🧕🏻

Too much energy?

I have been trying to understand my restlessness and hyperactivity.


Meditation doesn’t really help. So when you have or experiencing any of similar kind of things. Mostly its because of too much energy. It needs to be drained out. For which I was working (like for living). And its does help. It gives you a good night sleep. Then whats laziness?

Too much of pressure/expectation not letting you use your energy to the fullest. Its like exploiting your soul. Suppressing is the word! (or may be your insecurities). Give yourself a break.

Let it flow naturally. Its difficult, not impossible. And ya some situations won’t let you. So plan accordingly!

One thing I know for sure is I am not an overthinker. I am someone who doesn’t like regretting. Dont let anybody tell you that. Your words count, are valueable and makes complete sense!

This year was like an adventure in itself. I got to experience adrenaline rush. The cooling sensation that flows down your brain through neck to the back. Whatever that was. Gone!

Take care ❤

Beautiful Woman

Beauty a curse

A dream that everyone wants to live

Lest they know whats hidden behind

A fearful heart and drowned mind

A Conquering piece left

A story cant unwind

The good give up the hope to have you

The bad chase you

But who knows what’s fine?

You are in the fury of your own divine

Whats say? 😛

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Btw Happy Valentine’s Day

I cant sleep. I slept early and I woke up. Can’t go back to sleep.


I dont know what to do at this period of time. When everybody is sleeping. And don’t have anything to do.

What is this lying around ?

Picked up and saw its string hanging around

Pulled it to see what’s inside

Colour red and blue came out

Is all i could see

Wiped my hand as fast i could be

Tried to hide it somewhere

So nobody could see

But got caught in the act

And had to answer the react

What thats you have?

Somebody’s heart I said

(String -like the bruise that healed the past wound…or sores

Red-blue.. blood and pain)



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Picturesque complete

I dont feel like posting anymore.

Other topic I had in mind:

  • India (people)
  • Few places in India
  • Arabic in detail
  • Some beautiful Poems (analysis)
  • Spices
  • Grammar

Its my eye 👁. Creating a negative reinforcement (lol). Its hurting a lot. Can’t bear it now. I got it checked – nothings there.

I keep telling myself to be away from my phone. I am dragged to it. (I know why) and I have to stop.

I am giving up. Or may be it is complete!

I will post in the existing blogs.

Take care ❤

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Geography: jee·aw·gruh·fee

These are few facts that everybody should know or they know already 🤔.

Colorful abstract universe textured background

How it all started?

With the big bang theory, Yes! not the sitcom rather the theory – theory. They are many theories as how the universe existed but the simplest way to understand it is:

  • Somewhere around 13.8 billion years ago, a matter containing energy exploded (couldn’t bear its energy). With the explosion, the dust particles that lingered around in the galaxy started to form asteroids and comets. Planets formed when gravity pulled swirling gas and dust. That’s when our solar system was born.
  • We always get confused with the milk way and galaxy and universe. Universe has many galaxies (billions) and in it, is our milk way and in that we have our Solar System. The Sun at the center and because of the it’s gravitational pull, all the planets in the solar system orbit around it.

Planets and their satellites

Originally uploaded from NASA by Bricktop; edited by Deuar, KFP, TotoBaggins, City303, JCPagc2015, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons

Each and every planet is beautiful and very interesting to learn.


It took billion years to form Earth. It is believe that water came to Earth with asteroid.

  • The earliest life forms known are microscopic organisms (microbes). 
  • Moon and Earth are believed to have formed together.
  • Moon was much closer to Earth but with time moving further away from it.

Its shape – its shape is changing with time. but is believed to be ellipsoid. However, even an ellipsoid does not adequately describe the Earth’s unique and ever-changing shape. It has bulge at the center due to effect centrifugal force also due to the gravitational pull of the moon.

Imaginary lines – is used for everything – orbits, dividing hemispheres (north and south), longitudes and latitudes.

Equator is at the center of the earth where lies the evergreen forest. (will discuss in detail)

Satellite image of Earth. Original from NASA. Digitally enhanced by rawpixel. | free image by

What’s inside it?

The deepest trench is the Mariana Trench

The cores are made of iron and nickel and molten lava.

  • Iron and nickel creates magnetic field which protects us from harmful rays of Sun.
  • Molten lava is responsible for earthquake.

Lastly :

  • Poles are shifting. This was suppose to happen slowly but its happening faster then expected. This is creating climate shift. The ice is melting.
  • North Magnetic Pole is shifting its place from Canada to Russia at a speed of 50-60 km per year

Most important: Nothing is concrete, as things are based on standard approval and as the things are changing with time.

For example if I tell you apple is red. This is agreed by most of the people to name is as red for convenience cause it would be a very long procedure to explain the true colour (just a hypothetical example)

This is an obstacle face by the education department. Because they have to cut down information so that the child understand from his/her level of understanding. While doing that facts are hampered. And what we know is not completely true. Facts are updated every now and then (still discovering).

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Firefly * *** ******

Fireflies – passion and love (in poems).

high – a notably happy or successful moment.

The bridge – communication and union, whether it be between heaven and earth or two distinct realms. For this reason it can be seen as the connection between God and Man. It may be the passage to reality, or merely a symbol for travel and crossing.

knee – accompany or friend

nose – pride or fright

head – head over heels / going crazy

see – unaware of reality

don’t move – freeze – fear of losing

who knows? – confusion

Cant see it shining now too.

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