– They have issues taking anything from others. This pose a disadvantage. Because sometimes thing which are free are sold to them lol. (You should understand that its okay sometimes to take, accept it as a gift.)
Its not necessary all the time to give back if its not in your capability. Compromise most of the time leads to confusion. I gave you this- usually I don’t-because your special. This thing is most difficult to explain. You will spend your life proving it. It wont happen because you did it. Being firm with your limitation and understanding the peoples limitation helps to maintain a healthy relationship.
Take too much
Is not really interested in respect. May not be wrong and in fact most happiest person if thing go according to them. They are may easily shattered because they have to much expectations and may someday wont be able to fulfil. And wont be happy with minimum. Greed starts to built in.
Most taken advantage of. All they want is respect. They cannot compromise on that. They know they are being taken advantage of- still they give. It makes them happy. But doesn’t understand giving too much is creating a ‘take too much’ personality.
So the poem is for women, it could be any experienced women, whether single, single mother, married, mother, or a concumbine (excuse me for using such words), mistress. Depending on the grave situation they are in.
This forms two perspective: one ranging till mother & the other for mistress or concubines‘ (more focused on this).
The 1st one (more emotions based): like for instance is the lines ‘priority….’. Its that they take authority of the roles that they are playing -cooking-boss of the family. Other line similar to that. Last lines a lady tells her to leave and be herself. As nobody is going to come. But she is worried, if she does will the society accept her (I don’t know why she needs an approval).
The other one (flesh/physical based) is wide and clear, she accepts whats (having nowhere to go) happening to her and then live like that, giving herself authority (sleeping with guys with her choice and dumping them with her authority). Thinking that she is controlling everything. But she is unware that she is going more deep down the pit. May be she wants to come out, just she needs more acceptance. & not understanding the condition lies in the confusion.
With this post, I m signing off for the month. I have a lot in my mind, & I dont want to make a salad out of it. As I am getting to engrossed & obssessed with this. & its affecting my health too. So, see you all next month. (Its my birthday month Jan_yay!)
I used to love using Facebook, but gradually I started to lose interest (socializing). It is a best platform to broadcast your talent and grow your business (I used it for my blog and the results were marvelous). You may delete your other dating apps (or anything that is important) but Facebook.
Let me take you back in 2008-2010. This time Facebook was not as popular as it is now. People didn’t know how to use stickers and but slowly they became a pro. Putting filter photographs was something usually talked about. Making fun about the fact that the person looks way different than what he/she looks in person. It was a place where people wanted to find their long lost friends. Posting on each other’s wall was more common (because people were more open about things).
All this started to change. It has become more like a Fake book. A portfolio a person carries like a resume. So if you want to judge a person or know a person look at his/her Facebook profile. Whether you look good in person or not, is no more an issue. The better the picture, the more your followers are. It is a competition where everybody is competing who can fake better. The long lost friends are still long lost. They are just sitting in your friend list increasing the counts of your friend list and like/comments.
Your like and comments are like precious gold you possess. And some of them are ‘gold diggers’ here. Just kidding ..lol (won’t like your post no matter what, ‘NO I WONT GIVE IT- ITS MINE’ 😂)
We crib about being lonely and then make memes about it. Then we ignore the people who try to contacts us through messages and then make memes about that too. You are judged on basis of where you live, places you have visit. Earlier dreams were to travel the world. Now it has become travel the world to post photos only. Not completely being a able to enjoy the travelling part (may not to true for some).
Then we talk about women and their self-respect. There was this phase when a guy was abusing women’s and people were liking and sharing it 🤷🏻♀️.
I am not against using Facebook. It has best features. I use it myself. Fakeness, I guess is inevitable here (mostly). And we cannot change how things are. I just wonder how things are! A ‘picture of present‘ – of how things have become.
These flowers are fake but have its own beauty.
I don’t want to contradict with what I am saying. But I know fake is a strong word so may be we can use the word – beautify instead 🙂 . And there is no known harm of it 😉 yet.